Father’s home, Mother’s Home:
Co-parenting after Divorce
Keywords:
Co-parenting, Divorce, Connubial relations, Bonds, FamilyAbstract
Co-parenting implies an interplay of roles that is related to the child global care, and involves parents’ joint responsibility for the child well being. It was carried a qualitative study with separated\divorced fathers and mothers, focusing on the theme of education and co-parenting after divorce. The results pointed to the importance of connubial relations and parents-children bonds in the exercise of co-parenting. Moreover, co-parenting is also crossed over by cohabitation, parents and children’s gender and the financial conditions of the progenitors. In this study, as compared to the literature, fathers were more participative or willing to participate in the education of their children, and mothers were more satisfied with the guard of their children and less guilty of their choices, thus demonstrating new post-divorce scenery.
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Amato, P. R., & Gilbreth, J. G. (1999). Nonresident fathers and children’s well-being: A meta-analysis. Journal of Marriage and the Family, 61, 557-573.
Carter, E., & McGoldrick, M. (2001). As mudanças no ciclo de vida familiar: uma estrutura para terapia familiar. Porto Alegre: Artes Médicas. (Trabalho original publicado em 1980)
Erera, P., Minton, C., Pasley, K., & Mandel, S. (1999). Fathering after divorce in Israel and U.S. Journal of Divorce & Remarriage, 31, 55-82.
Feinberg, M. E. (2002). Coparenting and the transition to parenthood: A framework for prevention. Clinical Child and Family Psychology Review, 5, 173-195.
Grzybowski, L. S. (2002). Famílias monoparentais: mulheres divorciadas chefes de família. Em A. Wagner (Org.), Família em cena: tramas, dramas e transformações (pp. 39-53). Rio de Janeiro: Vozes.
Grzybowski, L. S. (2007). O envolvimento parental após a separação/divórcio. Porto Alegre: PUCRS.
Hackner, I., Wagner, A., & Grzybowski, L. S. (2006). A manutenção da parentalidade frente à ruptura da conjugalidade. Pensando Famílias, 10, 73-86.
Hilton, J., & Desrochers, S. (2000). The influence of economic strain, coping with roles and parenting of custodial single mothers and custodial single fathers. Journal of Divorce and Remarriage, 33, 1-19.
Fundação Instituto Brasileiro de Geografia e Estatística - IBGE (2006). Estatísticas do registro civil. Rio de Janeiro: IBGE.
Linker, F., Stolberg, A., & Green, R. (1999). Family communication as a mediator of child adjustment to divorce. Journal of Divorce and Remarriage, 30, 83-97.
Maccoby, E., Depner, C., & Mnookin, R. (1990). Coparenting in the second year after divorce. Journal of Marriage and the Family, 52, 141-155.
Madden-Derdich, D., & Leonard, S. (2002a). Parental role identity and father’s involvement in coparental interaction after divorce: Father’s perspectives. Family Relations, 49, 311-318.
Madden-Derdich, D., & Leonard, S. (2002b). Shared experiences, unique realities: Formerly married mother’s and father’s perceptions of parenting and custody after divorce. Family Relations, 51, 37-45.
Margolin, G., Gordis, E., & John, R. (2001). Coparenting: A link between marital conflict and parenting in two-parent families. Journal of Family Psychology, 15, 3-21
Masheter, C. (1997). Healthy and unhealthy friendship and hostility between ex-spouses. Journal of Marriage and the Family, 59, 463-475.
McHale, J. P., Kuersten-Hogan, R., & Rao, N. (2004). Growings points for coparenting theory and research. Journal of Adult Development, 11, 221-234.
Nielsen, L. (1999). Demeaning, demoralizing and disenfranchising divorced dads: A review of the literature. Journal of Divorce & Remarriage, 31, 139-177.
Olabuénaga, J. I. R., & Ispizua, M. A. (1989). La descodificación de la vida cotidiana: Métodos de investigación cualitativa. Bilbao: Universidade de Densto.
Parke, R. D. (1996). Fatherhood. Cambridge: Harvard University.
Pleck, J. H. (1997). Paternal involvement: Levels, sources, and consequences. Em M. Lamb. (Org.), The role of the father in child development (pp. 89-105). New York: John Wiley & Sons.
Silva, M. R. (2003). Sentimentos sobre a paternidade e envolvimento paterno de pais que residem e pais que não-residem com seus filhos. Dissertação de Mestrado, Pontifícia Universidade do Rio Grande do Sul, Porto Alegre.
Silva, M. R., & Piccinini, C. A. (2004). O envolvimento paterno em pais não-residentes: algumas questões teóricas. Psico, 35, 185-194.
Staudt, A. C. P. (2007). Paternidade em tempos de mudança: uma reflexão sobre a contemporaneidade. Dissertação de Mestrado, Pontifícia Universidade do Rio Grande do Sul, Porto Alegre.
Stewart, M., Copeland, A., Chester, N., Malley, J., & Barenbaum, N. (1997). Separating together: How divorce transforms families. Nova York: Guiford Press.
Stewart, D., & Shamdasani, P. (1990). Focus groups: Theory and practice. Newbury Park, CA: SAGE.
Stone, G., & McKenry, P. (1998). Nonresidential father involvement: A test of a mid-range theory. The Journal of Genetic Psychology, 159, 313-336.
Struss, M., Pfeiffer, C. Preuss, U., & Felder, W. (2001). Adolescents from divorced families and their perceptions of visitations arrangements and factors influencing parent-child contact. Journal of Divorce and Remarriage, 35, 75-89.
Talbot, J. A., & McHale, J. P. (2004). Individual parental adjustment moderates the relationship between marital and coparenting quality. Journal of Adult Development, 11, 191-205.
Thompson, R. S., & Laible, D. J. (1999). Noncustodial Parents. Em M. Lamb (Org.), Parenting and chil development in “nontradicional” families (pp. 103-123). New Jersey: Lawrence Eribaum.
Thomson, E., Mosley, J., Hanson,T., & McLanahan, S. (2001). Remarriage, cohabition and changes in mothering behavior. Journal of Marriage and Family, 63, 370-380.
Van Egeren, L. A., & Hawkins, D. P. (2004). Coming to terms with coparenting: Implications of definition and measurement. Journal of Adult Development, 11, 165-178.
Wagner, A. (2002). Possibilidades e potencialidades da família: a construção de novos arranjos a partir do recasamento. Em A. Wagner (Org.), Família em cena: tramas, dramas e transformações (pp. 23-38). Petrópolis: Vozes.
Walker, A., & McGraw, L. (2000). Who is responsible for responsible fathering? Journal of Marriage and the Family, 62, 563-569.
Wallerstein, J., & Kelly, J. (1998). Sobrevivendo à separação: como pais e filhos lidam com o divórcio (M. A. V. Veronese, Trad.). Porto Alegre: Artes Médicas. (Trabalho original publicado em 1980)
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2010-05-11
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Grzybowski, L. S., & Wagner, A. (2010). Father’s home, Mother’s Home:: Co-parenting after Divorce. Psicologia: Teoria E Pesquisa, 26(1), 77. Retrieved from https://periodicos.unb.br/index.php/revistaptp/article/view/17444
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